kasih sayang

di manakah sikap kasih sayang kita?

Perasaan kasih sayang dan lemah lembut sesama insan adalah suatu sifat yang amat penting dalam sistem kehidupan kita..Secara teorinya mungkin ia nampak sangat simple atau suatu benda yang sgt straightforward..
Akan tetapi..adakah ia suatu benda yang dipraktikkan di kalangan masyarakat kita..

Bukannya saya hendak menyatakan keburukan di tempat di mana saya bertugas sekarang...
namun apa yang ingin saya ketengahkn di sini ialah ia nya telah menjadi suatu yang asing dari masyarakat kita sekarang.

Apabila saya mula melihat dunia luar dan become more exposed to the real world, apa yang dapat rasakan ialah betapa hostile nya the world outside.
bukan lagi "innocent" seperti mana kita pada zaman sekolah..

It is now that i realize that the feeling of "selfish" as opposed to "selfless" is more apparent.
I am saddened by the fact that sometimes patients are maltreated.in my case in fact, taking care of the labor room, the patients are not "patients' per se..they are not people who are sick..they are people are about to go into a beautiful stage of life, which is chilbirth..

I am very much opposed to the fact that these pregnant ladies are subjected to hostile treatment.. especially those are primigravida..(pregnant for the first time)..


we must be very caring and supportive to these expectat mothers..imagine our own mothers/sisters/relatives/ and even ourselves going through this stage...
would we want them or us to be subjected to maltreatment..definitely not..
It is always like that..if it's for us..we would always want the best..lest we forget Allah's reminder to be kind always..to uphold the concept of melebihkan org lain ...

I very much believe the cause of this problem is in fact because we have strayed far from what has been taught by Islam...

many of us muslims, including myself, are deluded into believing that our deen is just restricted to ibadah..
many of us in fact, believe that being a good muslim is someone who is diligent in their ibadah and wear the certain clothing...

That is just part of islam..not wholly..as islam is not just a religion..it is a way of life...

Rasulullah ..our prophet was brought as a teladan for us as to lead our life..he led an exemplary life...whereby he showed us practically how to lead our life...

If we take a look at the hadith/sunnah and the sirah..we can see that this noble man led a life like us normal beings...he had feelings..he had his needs..he ate..he slept..he wept ..he bled..he cried..he married..he was a father..he was a businessman..he was a husband..he was a neighbor..he was an orphan..he was a leader...he was a human being..but a being with noble characters..who was chosen by our God as a person who is to be an example to others...

His akhlaq..as stated by aishah r.a. was like a "quran bergerak" the translation of quran, in other words...

And islam came to sempurnakan our akhlak...our characters..and that is what the root of all evils right now..because we fail to understand this part of deen..which is a very big part indeed...our akhlak...

May Allah show us the right path...